Many of us grow-up hating ourselves; if/when we accept ourselves & desires as normal, we have have to deal with those consequences. The Virgin/Whore complex is alive and well, in all its varying shades.
Good Girls Don't, by Silent Porn StarWorse yet, some of us talk about it.
Dear Boyfriends I Had When I Was In My Twenties, by DeeDee
Sisterhood Of Smut Collectors, by me, Gracie
What it is...
Felice Newman Interview, Author of The Whole Lesbian Sex Book, by Genia of SistersTalkWhat it isn't...
Progress, by aag (Always Aroused Girl)
I’m a Christian, you Fuckers, by Margaret Cho
MILFs, Cougars & Age-Play, by Angela St. Lawrence
Urban Outfitters Shelves Women, me at Cult of GracieWhat it is and what it isn't.
Its just a joke… by Moll of Hanging Around On The Wrong Side Of The World (still)
SFP STFU, by Gloria BrameWhere & while we can.
Response to Hugo Schwyzer, by Amber Rhea
Considering Katy Perry's "I Kissed a Girl", by Liz Rizzo
Some thoughts on sex positive feminism (mine, at least), by Caroline of Uncool
Sex-positive feminism (2), by belledame222 of Fetch me my axe
But even how we talk about it is problematic.
Who Has Permission To Speak, by Renee at Womanist MusingsBut we'll continue to talk about it all, even when it's confusing... Like when you add power play elements to sex:
Privilege? What privilege? by Amanda Brooks
Over sharing, Blogging and Transparency—Notes—and Quotes-- from a Talk at Arse Electronika, by Susan Mernit
And don't ever forget, we still have to address just who owns our bodies.